Damn you, disseminator of patriarchy Cloud! *sighs!* This sort of thinking hurts men as well as hurting women! Most men are so oppressed by this concept -- "I only have value if I am being paid and providing" -- that they don't even realize that they might like something else out of life, like staying home and raising kids, or working in jobs they enjoy that don't pay as well as their spouses' jobs.

And, of course, everything you also said about the ridiculousness of what this implies for women.

*loves*! Feminism makes everyone free!